"Maybe our mistakes are what shape our fate......"

Carrie Bradshaw (Sex and the City)

One thing is for sure; dating, relationships, love, life and the universe all gets to be heavier going as you....a-hem....advance in years!

I look back to my teens and twenties and the biggest concern I had was "will he phone?"

Now, with too many failed relationships behind me, plus one adorable son and a business to run, I'm thinking "will he phone, and if he does,

• can I get the washing on,
• file and paint my toenails,
• polish Ben's school shoes
• and make his sandwiches for tomorrow,

whilst I'm on the phone and still sound alluring, sensual and desirable?"

This is the journey of a single female; she's fabulous, she's determined and she's going to get her man.....eventually.